Negative Aspects of Homeschooling

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Parents who homeschool their children will tell you that there are negative aspects of homeschooling. What is important, though, is how parents in those situations can overcome the problems and persevere.

Negative Aspects of Homeschooling for Parents

Any parent who homeschools will undoubtedly say that any negative aspects of the homeschool experience are well worth it in the end. People homeschool their children because they believe that they can provide a better education than the ones offered in a public or private school. However, there are a few drawbacks to teaching your children at home.

Alone Time

Teaching your children at home means that there is very little "me" time for the parents. While some parents manage to juggle work and homeschooling, this usually means that there is very little alone time. The parent is either teaching or working almost every day of the week.

Schooling Expenses

When a child is sent to a public or private school, many of their supplies are provided for them. A homeschooled child only receives what their parents can afford for them. Even though a parent still has to pay local school taxes, that money isn't returned to them just because they have chosen to homeschool their child. A family has to add all schooling expenses into their existing budget. This will include all books and supplies needed for the school year.

Extracurricular Activities

While laws are beginning to change for some homeschooled children, the majority are still not allowed to play on their local high school sports teams, chorus, band, FFA or join any other school-based clubs. This problem still exists, despite the fact that many homeschooled families still have to report to their local school district with their child's progress reports, grades and homeschool instruction plans each year.

Lack of Support

While it is true that there are homeschool support groups throughout the United States and abroad, not every homeschooling family joins them. In many communities no groups exist, and the people who homeschool their children feel ostracized. Traditional communities often view a homeschooling family as being weird or having ulterior motives as to why they choose to teach their children at home.

Being a Good Teacher

One of the negative aspects of homeschooling that parents are bound to experience is the inability to teach a particular subject. While many teachers in the public or private sector often specialize in one or several subjects, they don't always have to teach all the subjects to their students. This can be especially difficult as a child begins high school and has to tackle difficult subjects, such as long forgotten trigonometry or advanced chemistry.

Conquering the Negatives

Homeschooling isn't for the faint at heart, as any teacher-parent will explain. While there are some definite negative aspects of homeschooling, there are ways to work around those problems.

  • Scheduling is important: If you can't seem to get any alone time, schedule it in like school work. Parents can find time for themselves if they make their needs a priority too. Finding one or two reliable baby sitters can also give a single parent or a couple time to themselves or to reconnect after a tough week of school or work.
  • Create a budget: To make a real go of homeschooling a family needs a budget that is workable. Make sure to include books, supplies, field trips and miscellaneous school expenses into the budget. If a family does this, they'll have some wiggle room all year round and won't feel the pinch at the beginning of each school year when they're buying the latest curriculum and associated supplies.
  • Join clubs and take extra classes: One way to take some of the pressure off of the teaching parent is to allow children to take outside classes and join groups with children their own age. 4-H clubs, local youth groups and community sports groups are great outlets as are dance, music and art lessons at a local community arts center.
  • Join a homeschool support group: Even if a parent or family aren't "joiners," belonging to a support group can have some great benefits. Check out what your local homeschool support groups have to offer. They might offer classes, discounts from local businesses, babysitting services and camaraderie, all of which can make parents feel more secure with the whole homeschooling experience.
  • Get teaching assistance: While it may seem that some homeschooling parents are super teachers, not everyone can do this. When things get difficult, get help. Many teachers, even at local high schools, will offer tutoring if your child needs help. In addition, many support groups offer assistance. There are also many online help sites which offer tutoring and support for children struggling in one or several classes.

Don't let the thought of a few rough patches dissuade you from homeschooling your children. While there are a few negatives when it comes to homeschooling, they can easily be overcome with a little advanced planning and help from friends, family and support groups.



 


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